You turn out the lights.

I'll know you're home safe.

I liked that, so I stole it.

I think sometimes that I have advice to give about what is right and about what I would do, should certain situations arise. Then I realize that experience has dictated that there may in deed be a wide gulf between what I would like to think I would do and what will actually happen.

There is getting what you want, and there is being who you want and sometimes I'm afraid that I'm not terribly good at the latter.