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Is it so unreasonable to want to be wanted an unreasonable amount? I mean, I'm asking here. This isn't one of those posts where I try to tell you what is what and where it's at, 'cause we all know what those are about. I just really want to know what you think. At least in the beginning, is it unreasonable to want to be wanted a crazy, silly, stupid amount?
Let me know so I can ignore you, since I already know both that the answer is yes and that I'm going to keep on doing it anyway.
posted by David at 10:24 PM
6 Comments:
i actually don't think it is unreasonable, no. not in the beginning especially. some people need that and some people don't; some people are even freaked out by it. there isn't a right or wrong way and there isn't a "good" or "bad"; it's just the way you are. i think there are plenty of people out there who can accommodate that need, so that has to be pretty reasonable.
8:47 AM, January 16, 2007
you really want to know, you say? well ok, in spite of my own personal rule not to comment on thoughts not actually addressed to me... of course you're right. it's not unreasonable and you know it. however, i would submit that at the beginning takes time to learn another person's rhythms and language. have faith and trust your instincts, sure, but it could be caution masquerading as reason.
9:40 AM, January 16, 2007
well, you know how i feel about caution and reason. so of course i think not only is it ok, but it's the whole point, and it should never feel like a need that is being accommodated.
that said, with this particular situation being what it is, maybe you can grant a small grace period while she decides if she's in.
5:25 PM, January 16, 2007
but if she first needs to decide if she's in, it seems kind of unlikely that she will suddenly give you what you are looking for, even if she decides she is "in". what you are looking for is kind of something you don't control- it is that thing that tells you you're in, even if your head hasn't yet yielded to that conclusion.
6:05 PM, January 16, 2007
since you're asking :)
of course it's not unreasonable to want what you want but I bet you'll more likely get what you want if you're willing to give in equal amounts.
Desire her without limits- want her a crazy, silly, stupid amount and perhaps leaving caution to the wind will get you everything you want. GOOD LUCK!
4:53 PM, January 17, 2007
Not only is it not unreasonable, it should be requisite.
8:19 PM, August 14, 2008
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